Frequently Asked Questions about Celebrant Ceremonies

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What’s the difference between a celebrant led ceremony and a traditional wedding?
Great question! Unlike traditional ceremonies that follow set scripts and legal requirements, celebrant ceremonies are completely personalised to you. I can include whatever elements you want – personal vows, meaningful readings, symbolic rituals, or unique traditions. The ceremony tells your story and reflects your personality in a way that feels authentically yours.

Are celebrant led ceremonies legally binding?
Not at the moment. Couples usually go and do their legal marriage with the council (usually around £50-£60) and then do their Wedding afterwards with the venue and ceremony of the choice.

How long are celebrant led ceremonies?
Typically 20-30 minutes, but this is completely flexible. Some couples prefer shorter, intimate ceremonies, while others want longer celebrations with multiple readings and rituals. We’ll create the perfect length for your vision.

How much input will we have into creating the ceremony?
As much or as little as you want! Some couples love being involved in every detail, while others prefer to share their story and trust me to create something beautiful. I’ll work with your comfort level and preferences.

Can we include children and/or pets in our ceremony?
Of course! Including family members – furry ones included – can make ceremonies extra special. We can create meaningful roles for children, incorporate family unity rituals, or plan safe ways to include beloved pets.

What are symbolic elements like “Handfasting”?
Symbolic elements add beautiful meaning to ceremonies. Handfasting involves binding your hands together with ribbons or cords (hence “tying the knot!”). Unity candle ceremonies involve lighting a shared candle together. These are available for an additional charge and can be tailored to your preferences.

Do you do Vow Renewals?
Yes! They are different from a wedding as there is nothing legal involved and therefore just pure celebration! They can be a no pressure way to celebrate your long lasting love.

Do I have to write my own vows?
Not at all! Some couples love writing personal vows while others prefer traditional or alternative vows that I can provide. We can also do a mix – perhaps personal promises within a traditional structure. Whatever feels right for you.

Do you work with neurodivergent couples & families?
Yes, in fact this is something I specialise in. I will work with you in a calm, way at your pace, advocating for you the whole way. There is no “normal” over here and I will help you create a ceremony that feels very very YOU!

Is a Naming Ceremony like a Christening
Yes it is, except it’s non religious. But it’s also more than that, it can been totally personalised to reflect who are you and what your journey has been in welcoming a new person to your family.

Is there a legal aspect to a Naming Ceremony
No, which gives you complete freedom of choice and flexibility about how you celebrate!